I have been reading and mostly listening to the Love and Logic Series. I use the principles and the CD's in my parenting classes I teach at APS. What a great resource. I highly recommend it! You can go to their site, the library, or buy used at EBAY or elsewhere. Well worth you time & effort to make parenting less stressful and to raise responsible children into adulthood.
For you local yocals (SLC) there is a live presentation coming up March 5, 2011 in SLC not far from my home. Just $30.00. These men are entertaining as they share their experience, knowledge and wisdom. Here is the link for the live presentation: http://www.loveandlogic.com/ecom/p-513-salt-lake-city-utah-march-5-2011-morning-session.aspx